1. Introspective Challenge: Day 14

    14. Which is worse: when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you?

    Definitely when you lose touch with a good friend right near you. One of my close friends moved to California at the end of my freshman year, and we hardly talk at all anymore. We called and chatted online in the beginning, but eventually we just stopped altogether. It’s sad, but expected. When you move across the country, it’s hard to stay close.

    So you really have no excuse when they live right down the street. I mean, there are extenuating circumstances, but for the most part, if they’re a good friend, fix it and keep your relationship strong. I regret this happening to me in the past…I miss someone who lives three houses down from me so much that sometimes I can hardly stand to be awake.

  2. Introspective Challenge: Day 13

    13. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?

    Hell to the yes. I am actually quite proud of how good of a friend I am. I am super loyal, understanding, forgiving, supportive, and I care. I do things for my friends all the time, not expecting anything in return. I would be grateful to have a friend like me. 

    However, I hold very high standards for my friends because I expect to have the same treatment, though I know now that that is not very fair. I shouldn’t be mistreated, but I cannot expect my friends to have the same perspective on friendship. I have gotten in fights because of this, but I always make the efforts to fix it and we move on.

    There is nothing more important in life than the relationships we form with others, in my opinion, so I am very careful to keep these in tact and value them. 

About me

I'm Cassie - 18 - VCU bound - LOTR & HP obsessed - born to be a writer - soccer player for 10+ years - passionate about music - Imogen Heap's biggest fan - hopeless romantic - book worm - loves to travel - daydreamer

There's so much inside me, just waiting to be discovered, loved, and accepted.

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